What Is Your Top Priority?

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Determining what's most important to us lets us know how devoted we are to God, writes Fayetteville pastor David Chancey. GETTY/Special

I heard about the men who went deer hunting and separated into pairs for the day. That night one of the hunters returned, staggering into camp under a 12-point buck.

They asked, “Where’s Harry?”

“Harry had a heart attack or something. He’s a couple of miles back up the trail.”

“You mean you left Harry up there and you carried the deer down instead?”

“Well, I figured no one would steal Harry.”

Something’s out of whack with that guy’s priorities, wouldn’t you say?

Setting priorities is important, and any time is a good time to evaluate where we are putting our focus and investing our energies.

Stephen Covey said, “Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough on what is important.”

David Jaiko said, “The most important thing in life is knowing the most important things in life.”

Someone else said, “If it’s important to you, you’ll find a way. If not, you’ll find an excuse.”

What is your top priority?

As Jesus was moving towards the cross, He had the opportunity to address priorities. A delegation came to Him and tried to put Him on the spot, and Jesus handled their questions well. A teacher of the law was standing nearby and overheard one of these exchanges. He was impressed with Jesus’ answer, so He asked Jesus, “Which is the first commandment of all?”

Out of over 600 commandments that, through the years, had spun off of the original ten, which should receive my greatest attention and be my top pursuit, the man inquired?

In Mark 12:29-30, Jesus answered, “The first of all the commandments is ‘Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one,’ and ‘you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all of your strength.’ This is the first commandment.”

With that, Jesus stated that our top pursuit in life should be to love God. He used the word agape, which refers to a decisive act of the will. Many things come into our life that compete for our devotion and attention, so we must make the choice to love God supremely.

Lord is kurios, which refers to master. God wants to rule our lives as Lord and master because He knows what is best for us. That means we don’t truly love Him until we have completely surrendered to Him.

Your God captures the personal relationship God wants to have with us. It’s not enough that He is your Mother’s God or your neighbor’s God. At some point He must become your God.

Then Jesus shared HOW we should love God: with all of our heart, mind, soul, and strength ... with all of our being. Everything we are must be mobilized to love God.

How do we ultimately show God we love Him? We could tell Him, but it’s better to show Him. We demonstrate our love when we obey Him and live for Him.

Our love for God shapes how our other top priorities fall into place. One of those should be our family.

Harry Chapin’s song, “The Cat’s in the Cradle,” tells about the father too busy for his son. As the son grows up and the father grows old, the son is too busy for his father. The father missed out on a lot when the son was at home because the father had other priorities. Do we need to reorder our priorities?

I read about an unnamed college basketball coach and announcer who was obsessed with the game and winning. Later, he was struck with cancer and came to realize what he had missed out on when he was pursuing those wins and building his career.

He had spent so little time with his wife and children, and confessed, “I figured I’d have 20 years in the big time, and who knows, maybe three or four national titles, then pack it in at 53 or 54 ... I was going to make it up to them, all the time I’d been away ...” 

How do your actions express your priorities? What is your top priority this year?

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